Love At First Bite !

Love is a mysterious feeling! It can be quite difficult to describe how exactly one feels when they are in love. The mystery becomes even more compounded when lust is confused with love. It is said that love is that total/holistic feeling of  emotional attachment, while lust is merely a fleeting sense of  wanting that easily dissipates once that 'want' is achieved. The problem is, it is never really easy to differentiate between the two; love and lust.(think of fraternal twins; so similar yet so different!)  For most people, most of the time, lust takes the center stage of their intimate relations. People are attracted more to each other for the simple reason of satisfying their sexual curiosities as opposed to the pure magnetism of falling in love. no wonder we talk about falling in love: a tragedy! It should be meeting with love: an adventure! Lust is an end on it's own. It comes as it goes. There is no serious emotional attachment where lust rules. It's like a game of poker. You either lose or win! Love offers a chance for a win-win situation. Love is a give and take 'compromise'. Meaning as well as expecting to be loved back, one should be ready for rejection without feeling offended or willing to accept the half-baked love ! (given time, love has a way of  maturing).Love takes time to grow. Sometimes it may take years for a couple to realize that their relation isn't just a 'friendly encounter'. This is after getting those feelings of emptiness and loneliness following a period of 'missing' one another. Physical presence is an important aspect of any relationship and especially so for a couple ready and willing to get intimate. Ironically, most people get intimate due to lust and fortunately or unfortunately (there are instances when people have regrets following 'accidental intimate encounters'!) found themselves 'stumbling into love'! This is the moment when one gets the taste of LOVE AT FIRST BITE !! What starts out as fulfillment of sexual curiosity may end up trapping one into an abyss of emotional confusion where one is rendered a slave of  lust ! Sexual intercourse should therefore be treated with the caution and respect that it deserves. Only adults and people of sound health, both mental and physical can enjoy the pleasures of  intimacy without guilt, regrets or fear. The important thing to keep in mind is that intimacy should never be an 'accidental occurrence' whereupon circumstances and situations are the only determining factors . People need to be freely willing to engage in the act of love making and fully aware of the consequences that may arise. Total enjoyment will only be achieved between couples who are both mentally and spiritually ready to connect because sex isn't simply a physical act. It's a magical spiritual experience that can easily enable us to achieve the Angelic feeling of a heaven on earth!  Don't let yourself be a victim of love at first bite because it may not be the last bite! Remember once bitten............! Well don't give shyness a chance in your sex life. Free yourself, communicate, and enjoy !!

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