Sexploration !

Touch is a very fundamental aspect of love making.(there is a difference between Love making and having SEX!).Does a bull really make love to a cow?!. As human beings we have to learn the Art Of Sensual/Sexual Touch. This Sexploration technique is very important when it comes to sexual gratification. It entails the experience and patience of being able to touch your partner in a lovingly tender and arousing manner. This is the ability of being able to sensually massage each other with warm caresses sometimes even to the point of ejaculation/orgasm without necessarily engaging in penetrative sex! Sexploration is the ultimate Foreplay ! There's that natural psychological preparation needed before the actual sex act. This is the appetizer; sex spice to give the oomph into your normal sex life! Do not be too eager to satisfy your sexual lust, pangs and hunger to the detriment of an intimate, sexual connection. Take time to Sexplore each other and discover your erogenous zones. Different people react and respond differently to different ways of sexual stimulation. Find out what part of your body gives you that sizzling feeling of Sexstasy and how you like being touched, caressed, licked, sucked, rubbed. Don't be limited by your imagination. Be creative and give each other the freedom to sexplore and learn the best way you  can how to get sexual satisfaction every time you have intercourse. The first point of interest is yourself ! Know your sex organs like the back of your oooooooops!! Yes, get to know how your sex organs look/feel like! This may be quite easy for men and such a challenge for women. Whereas a man can easily discern how his bamboo and fleshy marbles  looks/feels like to touch, it is altogether a different game for a woman to really get to the roots of her mound and canal. Appreciating how your sex organs look like is important as a first step towards wading off shyness and the confidence of allowing a partner to 'sexually peruse' you without feeling like a patient on scrutiny before surgery ! Most women do not even know that they have a clitoris, let alone knowing where it is located and yet it is part of their sexual anatomy! Every part of the body should be open to sexploration .Most men make the mistake of 'going for the kill' as soon as their penis is erect. All they want to do is go in there and shoot! Take time to arouse the woman by gently and sexpertly touching her an a way that shows you care about her emotions and the ultimate goal is sexual enjoyment for both of you. Take a keen interest at how she reacts to your touch. Look at her facial expressions. Listen to the sounds, wimps, gurgles, cries of joy that she makes. Some woman will even 'speak in tongues' when properly aroused! For the woman, take your time as well to mold your man by taking control and 'keeping him at bay' until you are really so wet you can no longer wait to let him get in and explode inside of you! Touch him anywhere and everywhere! Caress, suck, lick, kiss and be attentive to how he groans and moans. Most men will make grunts like pigs when touched in the right way ,right places! It takes time, patience, cooperation and the willingness to learn how to make love to make one a good sexplorer!  This is the only way of getting to find out which are the most erogenous parts of your body. When it comes to sex, being conservative is tantamount to barring one from fully enjoying their sexual sexperiences. Free yourself from self inflicted 'sexblocks'(sexological mental blocks) and get to the unimaginable heights of  Sexteria (sexual hysteria) that will always blow your mind away!

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Body Language.

Human Sexual attraction is a phenomenon that is quite baffling! You can never say for sure or explain why a male human will easily be 'sexually tuned' towards a particular female human. They say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. The more beautiful a female (woman/girl) is, the more 'sexually activated' male she attracts'. Nothing can be further from the truth. The mystery of  human sexual arousal lies not and in fact ,depends not simply in beauty per se ! As opposed to animals who merely rely on their instincts to mate, human beings have no mating season. Any time is sex time! Of course there are various issues and circumstances that may allow or impede the actual act of copulation taking place. A cock 'gets down' with a chicken when the 'sex alarm' goes off in its head or is it 'cock cock'. It doesn't matter how often the alarm goes off or whether the 'chick' is beautiful or not, the mating just has to take place. The reason why the cock is always 'raping' the chicken!? Chicken shit aside, the primary welcome signal to a potential opportunity for a man to have a sexual adventure with a woman lies in Body Language. It may not be easy to decipher the 'horny codes' of a person who is naturally eager, ready and willing to go on a wild 'sexcursion' but the rewards for being adept at reading the mute messages of sexual hunger are quite gratifying . Seduction is part and parcel of the human sexual experience  but without being able to connect psychologically you will always miss out on opportunities to make love simply for lack of knowledge or the inability to read body language! They say opposites attract each other. When a man approaches an woman ,this rule doesn't necessarily apply. Women tend to have a natural defense mechanism that makes them seem to repel men in the first instance of  'confrontation' even in the face of being 'hit' by an attractive(sic) man ! A man trying to seduce a woman would be wrong to assume that being handsome(whatever that really means) is a guarantee to having a 'sexcapade' with any woman, anytime.  First time rejection is a normal occurrence even if the woman is burning hot under her pants! Learn to read the body language well and you should not be surprised to go on a 'Sexploration tour' with a woman you've just met ! Naturally woman have an inbuilt software that makes them good mind readers (almost psychic) when it comes to 'reading the men'. Stop bragging about how good you are at charming your way into lady's hearts or is it 'honey pots' ? Even before you uttered that archaic, overused chat up line, be aware that your intentions were already known and a decision had already been made by the lady as to whether she will let you take a dive into her deep canal or brush you aside like a filthy, smelly fly! Subject to how you initiate your moves. Touch before you can touch! Use your eyes before you use your body. A woman would never let a man touch her if he had not first caressed her lovingly with his eyes ! Charming words and humor alone will lead you to 'sexual starvation'

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Lovely Sexperience

Human beings are 'animals'. Naturally, animals mate with other animals of their kind.The only thing that guide them is their instincts.A lion with all it's 'mightiness' cannot choose to mate with (read 'rape') an antellope! That's a meal! Human beings, not withstanding their 'animalistic instincts', can not and infact ,must not dare to simply mate or have sex for that matter! We are blessed with intelligence, the ability to choose when, how and with whom to have a lovely 'sex adventure'! Most people take the act of sexual intercourse for granted such that penetration and ejaculation for a man ,and 'being penetrated' for a woman is all that it takes to accomplish this lovely sexperince of human copulation! Unfortunately this is very wrong and infact quite unhealthy because this lack of sexpertise of whatever level is the cause of so much breakups and breakdowns in many intimate ralationships. We have to learn how to "make love" as opposed to 'just having sex', which is as animalistic as chicken mating! Making love is certainly an ART that each and every human being should strive to learn and master according to our ability. After all, all said and done we are each endowed differently both physically and psychologically.The act of making love starts form within(mental) and then spreads out to the physical aspects of 'eating the apple'.You can never,will never really enjoy the 'paradise of eden' unless first and foremost you are able to prepare yourself mentally.Talk about 'blunt foreplay'! This is when you can willingly and consciously allow yourself to be caressed and sexually aroused simply by sight and not touch! Set aside your inhibitions and get your mind NAKED!


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The Apple In The Garden

When, in "the Garden of Eden perspective", did the first act of sexual intercourse take place? Was the "eating of the Apple" a parable/riddle ? Could the Serpent have enticed the 'woman' into the 'first act' and in the course herald the beginning of  the human curse ? It may take a non-conservative mind to hold the view that the first human being got his first intimacy lesson from the being born of his rib! The first offspring brought about the first case of murder/manslaughter. Even in this view, sexual intercourse can never be termed to be the cause that brought any curse on human life. Sex was/is a gift that only had/has to be unwrapped in the right place at the appropriate time! It's only natural to feel horny, but unlike hunger sex should not be partaken just to quench the urge. Hunger may lead to starvation and you won't necessarily die for lack of 'sexercise'! But any sane, healthy, ADULT human, needs to be sexually active to compliment, augment, and fulfill the natural Spiritual, Psychological and Physical needs for a holistic productive life! Sex is not a game to take away boredom nor is it an experiment for the immature. It is SACRED! MYSTICAL! POWERFUL!

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In the beginning...

This is my first post as I  join the "blogosphere" to add, share, spread knowledge, advice and in turn learn and expand my worldly wisdom/intellect on the one sensitive issue that brought us into this world in the first place. This isn't simply about 'sexual intercourse' per se. It's a much deeper and broader perspective at the psychological understanding/misconceptions in human sexual intimacy. The myths, fallacies, phobias, facts, counsel ,therapy....e.t.c.. SEX is the gift of nature that can never be wished away or ignored ! It is my hope and wish that we will be engaging in this fascinating, mystical subject in an objective, topical, entertaining and educative manner. Stay Blogged !